Well yesterday I got about 10 calls and texts from aunt #1 telling me that I was crazy to send MLRA to aunt #2- that she would move heaven and earth to come for MLRA. I have enough drama trying to put all the pieces together I don't need to deal with aunt #1. I feel that I have to move on and her indecisiveness and final response to me that she couldn't take him was a more honest response than her crazy tirade-filled texts I was receiving yesterday from her yesterday. I responded once and said, It is done already. MLRA is going to your sister. I received more angry tirades criticizing my decision and wanting to know where I lived so she could come get him. Ugh. I guess I made the right decision not to send him to her. er better she made the right decision by stating that she couldn't take him. and that ended up being the right decision for MLRA.
Meanwhile aunt #2 said she was excited that she was getting him and she was enrolling him in special ed preschool on Monday and she was super excited. MLRA asked me to send her a text today that said, "I have missed you a lot, I love you a lot and I can hardly wait to see you. My mom's car is black, my dad's car is blue and I am happy that you are going to have a baby."
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention she is 6 months pregnant.
Even though the plan is to take MLRA there for a visit next weekend and bring him back then take him there for good in two weeks, I have a feeling that he will want to stay and I will let him stay rather than pull him away just to bring him back a week later. But, I will know next week.
So, today I treated as his last Saturday with me. We went to get his haircut, we went to WalMart to cash in his stickers for a toy. He chose an Angry Bird stuffed animal that would fit in his backback. We went to dinner and came home and he started packing his clothes and books that he wants to take to his brother's house. He is super excited now.
I am sooooo happy. I hope that he will be as happy when he gets there. For my sake and yes, for his especially.
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