Thursday, December 15, 2011

No Good Deed Goes Unpunished

This is all to end next week with the transfer of legal guardianship to  Aunt #2 - the aunt with the brothers.  Unfortunately, the aunt texted me on Monday "threatening" me that she was going to go drop MLRA at the welfare office because she never wanted him in the first place.  That if they didn't take him that she was then going to drive him over to my parent's house and drop him off there.  I can't imagine what MLRA is experiencing.  His hearing is supersensitive and hears low level conversations across two or three rooms with tv on and music on.  His therapists say that its a symptom of hypervigilance of needing to know what is going on. 

Regardless, I'm waiting to hear if that is true or another ploy to attempt to manipulate me. 

On Monday, this is the text I got from the aunt:

r u fucking stupid I NEVER WANTED THE KID I GAVE HIM TO U CUZ I DIDN'T WANT HIM & UR WEAR MINDED ASS COULDN'T HANDLE HIM.  I'M GIVING HIM AWAY. 

LOL that is why u don't have kids of ur own ha ha aside from the ones u aborted.  Ur nephews would tell me not to give you MLRA cuz u were all fucked up lol if they only knew how right they were.  Watch Watch n see....I'm shocked ur ur moms offspring cause ur no woman. 

I sent a smiley face back and got this response:

I can't wait till ur delt with Exactly all smiles over here cause see I have my son he is mine I'll never know that void of never having my own haha and I have the boy u thought u wanted.. Ur husband will never share that love of have a child together... hehe ur funny. 

and this morning the texts continued... with the final one being:

(we don't) have him and they know u left him for dead. 

I have not received any calls and well from what I know about the welfare system, they are not going to let her just drop him off unless she claims she is a danger to him.  which would mean she is a danger to her own kids. 

I was getting ready to end this blog and move on.  I guess its not over yet. 

By the way, no truth to the abortions and other comments she made but I'm not going to dwell on it.

But, in the grand scheme of things, I do think MLRA is better off away from all that hostility.  I spent a year and a half creating a safe and quiet environment for him.  Do I want him back? Unfortunately no.  I think I made the right decision for me and my family.  I think for MLRA it would have been good to be with his brothers.  I don't know if that's true anymore. 

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