Wearing

M refused to go on timeout instead was kicking the chairs with his bare feet and trying to pull out his eyes by sticking his fingers in his eyes and trying to force them out.   I restrained him and it took about 45 minutes before he calmed down to where i could let him go.  He kept yelling at me STOP TELLING ME THAT YOU LOVE ME!!!! which is what I tell him to try to explain the restraint and that I am holding him in a restraint so that he doesn't hurt himself and that I will let him go once his body is calm. 

but when I let him go, he started kicking and screaming again in a brand new fury.  Then he started punching the wall.  So, again I restrained him and I asked him to calm down or he wouldn't get to eat dinner with us.  I calmed him down so he wasn't hurting himself anymore but he continued to hit the door.  I reminded him that he needed to calm down or he would not eat with the rest of us and he would need to eat by himself.  He got upset and started throwing his toys at me and everywhere in general.  I told him that he wasn't going to eat with us but he could come eat when he was calm.  he would be eating by himself.  He got even more upset.  Needless to say he ended up so angry that when he took his bath for the night he was throwing all the water onto the floor and still yelling at me.  I drained the water until he calmed down then i filled it back up when he was calm.