Back home

I had to leave on a family emergency out of the country.  Because MLRA doesn't have a passport I couldn't take him.  so, i left him with my husband.  I left on a Saturday and by Tuesday my husband called to say he couldn't handle him anymore.  My husband felt he was going to lose control.  So, i asked a family member if they could take M until I got back.  M went with my family member for 4 days.  I called M twice.  The first time he told me that he didn't want to come home.  I said yes, you're gonna come home soon. he hung up on me.  The second time, he said, I don't know who you are- I don't know you.  (even after he was told who i was) he then hung up on me.  I feared that i was gonna have to start from the beginning ALL OVER AGAIN.  & i don't have the patience for it anymore.

while he was at my family member's, he took off running outside and ended up between two wheels of a tractor before the driver saw him.  He was scolded.  He got upset because he was scolded and he took off running again, this time into the middle of the street.  A car screeched to a halt to avoid hitting him.  Unfortunately, he doesn't really appreciate danger.  I believe because of the Fetal Alcohol Syndrome.  So, this will continue to happen. 

As far as being home, I had to restrain him today because he started kicking me when I put him on timeout.  He has been babbling more than I remember.  He talks a language I don't understand and it seems he's detached from reality.  I hadn't noticed the frequency or maybe it is more frequent.  I just don't know.  its scary though.